I need to have closure with a friendship that I ended this summer. I want to write a kind and polite e-mail to my former friend. But all I can come up with is my anger and frustration I have towards her. She has OCD, bad temper, need to be in control of her environment and other people, perfectionist...etc. All these traits annoy me and affect my moods. It became a chore to be her friend rather than something I looked forward to. I could never truly be myself around her I felt as though I had to walk on egg shells and sugar coat whatever I had to say to her.

I have known her or been friends with her for around 10 years. And I don't want to upset her or her family. Her family has already distanced themselves from me due to me not being friends with her anymore. Her dad is my faniancial advisor and said that our relationship will not change because I am not friends with his daughter anymore.

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I have received some negative or hurtful feedback in PC that I come across as needy. When I write my posts I am sincerely asking for advice and guidance. I have no close friends to confide in nor do I have a mental health support team. The comments or replies you have all posted on this thread have helped me greatly. I feel more relaxed and emotionally balanced. Even though I know I tend to repeat the same issue over and over again.

So, if my posts annoy you or come across as needy please do not read this thread anymore.