lol I tried searching PC for "*****y" and found tons of hits dated long before this thread. Only a few had anything to do with the icon. It seems to be a word that people have been using regularly (and harmlessly).

When I hear someone using it seriously, I like to invite them to unpack* it and look more specifically at what it means to them. To me it suggests smoldering passive-aggressive anger, but I don't think everyone uses it that way.

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