Ok, so I'm having a big problem right now, I have a girlfriend that I love more than anything!! She's absolutely, no doubt in my min,d the best thing that's ever happened to me. Here's the problem though; she's not a virgin and I am, but she doesn't want to have sex with me, because she regrets it and wants to wait until marriage (but it's still too early for that). I *am* religious, but not a very good one, and it's something I plan on working on in the future, but that's not something to discuss right now. What I'm having trouble dealing with, is she used to be sooooo into sex, and she's given most her past boyfriends hand jobs and blow jobs, and had sex with one. She's had cyber sex with about three different guys who weren't even her boyfriends. We still talk about sex pretty often, and one time we did get carried away and got very, very handsy, but that seems like a one time thing, b/c she regrets it...
What's getting me down is that I feel like as she's becoming closer to God, she's changing, and avoids a lot of that stuff now, like she almost completely refuses to even wear skirts or short shorts...I'm the only boyfriend she's ever loved, and it's just getting me down that I never got any of that from her...she even sent her guy friend snaked pictures once! Is it all in my imagination that she's losing her extremely high sex drive?? Does this happen to all girls?
I just want some help b/c I hate this getting in the way of my love for her...any help would be great!!
Thanks soo much!