Pomegranate, I actually did fall for this guy because of WHO he is. To be honest, I didn't like him at first in that way at all. Couldn't picture myself with him. But I loveddd talking to him. When someone would ask if I had a thing for him (because I talked to him so often) my exact response would be "I love talking to this guy, he has everything I look for.. but I'm just not attracted to him" As I got to know him more and more... I became attracted to him, I think because his personality shined through. Looks wise, he was the complete opposite of what I look for. He was short, bald, chubby. So to answer your question... yes I like him for HIM. And yes I could be my true self with him. That's what makes this so hard... he just seemed so perfect for me.

lynn, LOL... that made me chuckle