Thanks Mandy.

She's not hyper. She's the kind of kid who spends 45 minutes getting her papers and pencils ready to do her work, and then something catches her attention and she completely forgets about it. She's daydreamy and distractible. I don't know if the doctor will see that in a few hours.

I don't like that I was INSTRUCTED not to be there. I don't like that my ex found this doctor and made the appointment before he mentioned it to me. Only after he had a time allotted did he e-mail and ask if it was OK to take her. The doctor we were referred to when she was first diagnosed - 9 years later my ex says her diagnosis was wrong because it was her first year in practice. Like all those years of medical school and internship were meaningless?