how do you treat the alter with kindness and love wen they are trying to initiate sex with hosts best friends boyfriend. I'v been reading the facebook private messages that has been sent. They not worried about it they kinda into the kinky type of sex. Eek. Don't need to have more complications. The messages have been talking about the sex positions that would like to be involved with. I'v had sex with him before. And he asked how i was so good at certain sex acts that i have done before. I said i had no idea. What do i do.