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Old Oct 12, 2009, 06:15 AM
sittingatwatersedge sittingatwatersedge is offline
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ECHOES >> What is uncanny, anyway... the opposite of 'canny'?!?<<
yes exactly, the opposite of canny, which is a cool word although not used these days.

ECHOES >> I asked T once if, since we internalize our early caregivers, could we also internalize their feelings that resulted in neglect? If we internalize "I don't like/love you" from them, then it becomes part of our psychological makeup, it becomes our own feelings toward ourselves. From outside of us we perceive it as it is used toward us, we internalize it and then use it toward ourselves. "You are no good, unworthy, unlovable..." becomes "I am no good, unworthy, unlovable". <<

Echoes what was yr T's response to yr question?