This is sure a tricky topic

I have a 16 yr old step-son, 15 yr old estranged daughter and 10 yr old daughter that is entirely too developed for her age

I agree with the comment about open communication. I am sure I will be asking a million questions as the time gets closer for my youngest. I was raised in a very strict environment where NOTHING was spoken of. It was weird as mother is an alcoholic and has her share of issues. I can say from my personal experience, the communication is most important. The first time I was in that situation, I did not have a CLUE what was going on physically, much less emotionally.

I hope I am not being too honest with my youngest. I don't want her to think it is commonplace and take sex for granted, but I also want her to know how special it is.

Do ya'll know what I mean. Any pointers ?

Jen