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Oct 12, 2009, 10:07 AM
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Member Since: Jul 2009
Location: Phoenix, AZ, USA
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Maybe that's your answer. Maybe you had to look and look until you found something, ANYTHING, that made you attracted to him.
I remember a post someone made here on this forum a while back. Can't remember when or where. But it had to do with passion. Someone said that they were dating a guy who had it all...money, prestige, a future, and no one could figure out why she dumped him. The answer was she just didn't feel a spark. No passion. She ended up marrying someone who she had passion with. And they have been married over twenty years. And they still have the passion.
Perhaps you kept looking and looking for something in the guy to like. And while you were looking, you became attached to him. But he knew right away there was no "connection".
I would tend to agree with Pomegranate. Maybe it is the kind of guys you are picking. Maybe you are picking them for reasons of safety or something else that you use as filtering criteria and it puts them in the "yes" category. Then when you meet, you continue to date them until you find something, anything, that you like.
Perhaps you can explore this further in your own mind? I hope this has helped just a little. 
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 Vickie
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