"What are the reasons for your relationships ending? That might give us a better understanding on what the problem is so we can give better advice to you."
With me it wasn't so much a matter of relationships ending, it's that they never began. I was shy and (probably too) focused on other things. I didn't feel like I had much to offer a potential significant other so I settled for wallowing in my singleness and crying myself to sleep - alone. Since no one fell madly in love at first sight and swept me off my feet like they do on TV, I felt like no one would ever be interersted in me as anything but a friend.
Sometimes if you look hard enough at a wall, you will see a window (or even a door) that you have never seen before. Sometimes, you need to stop staring at that particular wall and start looking in other places for those windows and doors.
Last edited by robin620; Oct 12, 2009 at 11:12 AM.
Reason: clarification of quote from previous reply
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