Hi Amanda!

I think Vicky is absolutely right! Knowing yourself and what you want is very important. Working on your self-esteem can be just as important as well. It's hard to make the right choices in relationships if you don't like yourself or who you are because you may end up settling for things that people with a healthy self-esteem probably never would. Don't worry so much about the way you look and the weight you've gained, and if that really bothers you, come up with a nice fitness routine that you enjoy and you'll lose the weight in no time.

Focus on your strengths, on the things you really like about yourself insted of focusing on what you don't like and your self-esteem will be going through the roof before you know it.

Good luck to you hon. I hope you find Mr. Right soon!