Whew I'm sorry too, that you were treating so inconsiderately. They sound very insensitive. Sounds like the clinic attitude hasn't changed in 30 years! Make sure you do see the doc on Thursday... no matter what... try meditation, breathing, drugs! whatever... and take a list of what you want the doc to know, let him/her read it if you can't! Maybe you need an ultrasound to view if there is a bigger problem than just being "female"' like those at the clinic seem to be treating you like. sheesh. Fibroids are common, and can cause significant problems.... the fix is easier than it used to be though. TC