Crystalrose, it sounds like something you have learned, as a way of getting love or manipulating others. I don't mean that to sound bad, but if you were sexually abused, it was just a way of surviving, and a promiscuous alter is often the natural response to that learned survival behavior. I don't know a lot about DID from personal experience, but my personality was compartmentalized until recent years, and I did a lot of promiscuous things. Can you talk to this alter and make "house rules" as suggested above? I thought that was very wise advice from someone more experienced than I, but I wanted to add my validation of your experience. Know that you are loved and supported ~ billieJ