DHL & Complic8d & Iamtwilight & Crew:
"The model based on the triangle of perp, victim, rescuer"
Very interesting words with loaded meaning behind them and then stepping out of the triangle, hmmmm?
Complic8d:
"And, you are right, Hunny, I think that is one of the reasons this forum is so helpful, people understand! Once when I was there, this other patient and her view of the world, how she handled/ thought about situations, where she was emotionally, her confusion, was so much like me. When I told her that is how I think/feel/react, she was so relieved to know she wasn't the only one. I could relate to her so much, and it made us both feel "better"= not alone. Like I said, this seems to be very therapeutic."
Isn't it true, Complic8d, when we meet those of similarity, how comforting and reassuring it can be. And breaking the silence of lonliness is a tremendous factor in that. I must admit when we first came here to PC, I behaved liked a person who had gone without water for days! I filled up on all that I could from all sources and we felt so warmed by the kindness of the people on this forum. Being less lonely is therapeutic!
Thanks to both of you for sharing and here's hoping to hearing more about all you have learned and could probably teach!

Hunny
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