Ozzie is my co-administrator here and has every authority that I do (including the authority and ability, unilaterally, to suspend or ban members as she sees fit). Obviously I don't bestow this kind of authority lightly, so I trust Ozzie's judgment and ability in all matters having to do with the community here.

So if Ozzie posts about something, or PMs you about something, she's speaking for me. It's the same as if I did it myself. Ignore it if you want, but if I have to get involved personally just because you're not listening to her or respecting her authority, I will not be happy.

This is a self-help support community. The purpose of this community is for members to help one another. If you don't like another member, ignore them manually or place them on "Ignore" (which will do it automatically for you). If you are triggered by another member, do not read their posts. I expect everyone here to read the guidelines, abide by them, and act maturely (which means using the "trigger" icon when posting triggering material). If you are triggered by almost anything, well, I'm honestly not certain this is the best place for you... People can't conform their worlds to meet everyone's expectations, so you'll have to decide for yourself on that.

This is not a place to show off one's intellect, nor a place where being "right" or "wrong" is valued (or devalued). There is no right or wrong with what many of us are dealing with, only emotion and a sense of trying to find a way out of where we are.

Thanks and take care,
DocJohn