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Originally Posted by idontknow13
I was in a relationship for a very long time, then found out he had been lying or hiding something from me for quite a while, we broke up over it. A year later we started seeing each other again and although I know we love each other I am having a hard time trusting him again, that is the only thing that is keeping us apart.
How do you learn to trust again??? I do have trust issues and one word to describe me would be honesty.
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I think you can trust again. Just ask yourself "does the behavior match up with what's being said." Is he being open and honest now in that area that he wasn't before? Are you telling him how you feel so he understands your insecurities? If you see that he is in fact open to being honest with you and showing you by his actions then I think that will make it easier for you to trust him. Remember rebuiding trust is a process. Good luck.