((((((((((((Kimmy))))))))))))) Don't know how your communication is with your others. Maybe your T can help. You don't have to feel guilty for the way you feel just as they don't have to either. Our T has helped us with that. It is weird cuz he's had to be a mediator to help us be able to stop talk and listen actually listen to each other. In turn we were able to allow each others times to say feel what ever and be ok with it.
Don't know if I explained it right but it is possible that both of you or how ever many are in conflict can allow each other the time needed without interuptions.
lrks