Oh wow thankyou so much everyone who replied! It's a relief to know I'm not alone and to get some back-up and coping advice.
[Sooo sorry I didn't reply sooner, I went on holidays last week and was internet-free.]

To answer Pat, [hi ] I get bad thoughts about myself but the ones that worry me more are ones I have about other people. I hate thinking I'm a meanie! >_<

((((HUGS))) all and thanks for a such a warm welcome, I'm seriously saving this page for all the awesome information on it!!

Also FYI I talked to a counellor about it and she said soemthing insightful, which is that apparently people that are genuinely "bad" don't care about being bad, so the fact we get so darn worried just proves how caring we are! Twisted logic eh??