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Oct 14, 2009, 08:26 AM
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Member Since: Sep 2009
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Originally Posted by jerrymichele
I would find a new marriage therapist. I agree with you. How can the two of you move on if she won't admit to her wrong doings. If you do go back to this therapist, at least ask her why.  |
 jerrymichele is a wise one! New therapist for sure!
That being said, while I haven't gone through me or D having any type of affair, D was determined to leave about 4 years ago and have us divorce. (We didn't, and there is much damage and we are working on it in therapy...) Realize though, if she wants out, there is no convincing her to stay. Even if you persuade her, it may be prolonging the inevitable. Make sure you take care of YOU, even if that means going to a therapist on your own. It hurts like all get out, but I promise you will find inner strength you didn't know you had...
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