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Originally Posted by idontknow13
I was in a relationship for a very long time, then found out he had been lying or hiding something from me for quite a while, we broke up over it. A year later we started seeing each other again and although I know we love each other I am having a hard time trusting him again, that is the only thing that is keeping us apart.
How do you learn to trust again??? I do have trust issues and one word to describe me would be honesty.
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I can't offer you any great words of wisdom or some example from my life that will assure you it will be ok.
What I can tell you is I am right there with you! I will take your hand and walk with you. I am STILL having a REALLY HARD TIME trusting D after he wanted to divorce almost 4 years ago. I am terrified of being emotionally vulnerable with him since I felt "stomped on". We are in therapy, and while I am not "actively" weighing our future (you know the song...
Do I Stay or Do I Go Now...
) I am taking it issue by issue.
I'm here with you, so remember you are not alone!
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Blessed are the cracked for they let in the light! They say I have A.D.D. but I think they are full off...
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