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Old Oct 14, 2009, 11:30 AM
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Originally Posted by LivingMiracle View Post
My guy and I was talking deep the other day and he kept saying that " Your just not needy enough, I need needy" What does this mean? Anyone hear this before? I've heard too needy but never not enough needy to fill a space. Any thoughts?
Sounds very familiar to me. Is he feeling that you are too independent? Asking for help, emotional support, and being grateful for it are tough if you have trust issues, but maybe experiment? Notice where you need what he brings to your relationship.