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Originally Posted by AAAAA
In my opinion, we all like to feel that we're needed by our partner for some reason. Very insecure people think if they're not needed they can be easily replace.
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Have I mentioned lately, AAAAA is so wise!
I used to be one of those really "needy" people. I am not anymore due to events in my marriage, and it has rattled D a bit. But I know I can stand on my own two feet if I have to.
If you are not "needy" enough for him, that is ok. There are those who "need to be needed". I am not this way in romantic relationships or my marriage (D was very independent when I met him, is 8 1/2 years older than I and had lived absolutely alone for 4 years when we got together. If he NEEDS me to take care of him, times of high stress, when he is sick, I do take care of him then), but I do tend to do it in my friendships with either gender...
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I am not a medical or mental health professional, nor do I play one on TV, I just talk kinda like one!
Blessed are the cracked for they let in the light! They say I have A.D.D. but I think they are full off...
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