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Originally Posted by idontknow13
I was in a relationship for a very long time, then found out he had been lying or hiding something from me for quite a while, we broke up over it. A year later we started seeing each other again and although I know we love each other I am having a hard time trusting him again, that is the only thing that is keeping us apart.
How do you learn to trust again??? I do have trust issues and one word to describe me would be honesty.
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Good advice already given...and I hope it helps, idontknow.
One question came to mind when I was reading your post;
What is he doing to earn your trust?
Jmo, but it's got to be a two-way street when building/rebuilding a relationship.
Trust comes over time, consistent behavior that helps to dissolve the questions on whether he has truly changed.
Perhaps your hesitation is because it is too soon? Sometimes it's best to let go and let things develop as they may...taking the pressure off yourself may lead you to better understanding of what you want...and deserve from this relationship.
In Peace
Catherine
jmo