Haha, I think it's kind of cute personally. It reminds me of my boyfriend... For the longest time I was afraid to pump gas. It was an irrational fear based on the idea that I would some how manage to make the gas station, my car, and everything/one around us would explode. Over the summer, my boyfriend would pump my gas for me, regardless of whether he or I was driving my car. Towards the end of the summer, I learned to pump gas myself (I was going away to school 3 hours away, and taking my car, and realized I couldn't depend on anyone else so I'd better bite the bullet and get over my fear and just learn to do it). On one of the last days of summer together, we pulled into the gas station and he looked at me and said, "Do you want me to pump your gas...?" and I said "No, it's fine, I can handle it." And he just looked so sad, and was like "Are you sure....? Cause... I can do it." By being able to take care of me, in even the littlest of things, it helped him show that he loved me.
What i'm trying to say is it's not so much about you being needy (no one really wants that), but being able to show that you appreciate and want someone special in your life (and vice versa) and that both people are able to take care of the other.
Sorry this was so long.. Just got out of an exam and feeling a little chatty!
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