((((((Turquoisesea))))))
I'm sorry you had such a bad experience with your T. I did that once where I slept through the appointment. While I had to pay (and knew so) my Pdoc was very polite and worked with me to reschedule. I think it is rediculous that your T was not willing to talk to you on the phone until you were calm or your time was up for your scheduled appointment.

Whatever you decide I hope you feel better.