Yea, I guess I feel like our differences are too stark. I think we truly care for one another, have common interests, we're liberal, and we have personalities that work together, but.....Neither of us are willing to come to some agreement on lifestyle right now. He wants a few years to try and make this band work. I want to start a career and live like a snobby city-dweller. My dreams are his secondary dream, and I just refuse to come second at any time, as much as he says I'm number one. I guess it must remain casual, although if he ever comes around I may not still be standing there. Besides, it would be nice to have someone more intellectual. I guess we'll see what happens once I get past this HPV thing and where he ends up.

Thanks for the thoughts guy! :]