My thanks to both of you!

There are some legal issues that I thought I had more time to take care of...I should not have put them off.
The first steps have been taken, and I don't feel quite as pressured as I did when it became evident I had to take action sooner.

I have to admit to feeling betrayed in some ways...and of course that brought out some anger and grief and WTH feelings.

white_iris and Susan, thank you for caring!

In Peace