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Originally Posted by FRANTICMOM
I really feel for you! I went through a similar situation. I thought it was my resposibility to make it work and stay with him. I was so depressed. It was like a black cloud was over me. Finally God did deliver me from that mess. My husband got a girlfriend, I got a private Investigator! We had proof of adultry. He left and the black demonic cloud went with him. Praise God! If he has cheated on you, you have biblical grounds for divorce. However, I also have abandonment issues, so I was afraid to be alone. God will make a way , but sometimes you have to take action. Pray and He will give you peace and you will know what to do. I also know a woman who was in a similar situation. He said he would kill her if she went to church. She said get out of my way, I am going. anyhow, he got saved, and straighted up and became the husband she needed him to be. God works in mysterious ways. I hope you can get rid of this terrible pain you are in very soon. Let us know. We care about you.
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I totally believe that. In my situation which is similar to yours I kept asking God to help relieve me of my guilt for having thrown my baby's father out to a life of nothing. What he did was made me furious. Mike, not God. He was out partying, having girls over at temporary place, still not looking for a job, he wasn't proving me anything other than I was right to have let him go. God works in mysterious ways, and we may not always like them, but it's usually for the best. You just gotta stay strong, and stick with your gut. Good luck!