Personally, I think that it's good that she seen the message. She has ever right to know what her son is doing. It would be something different if the issue was something else. There are way to many STD'S out there just to let this issue pass by. Besides the fact of pregency. I was 17 when I had my first child. Talking to your kids about sex is nothing to be ashamed of.

My daughter is sexually active. Do I like it? No, but I rather her be safe then sorry. When kids are this age you can't keep them locked up. All that is going to do is create problems.

If this girl was sending a text like that to her son, I can almost bet that the girl is sexually active. Then she needs to be thinking to herself, why would my son keep talking to her if he doesn't like the messages. Kids are not going not going to tell their parents everything. At that age they think that the parents are stupid, and they're so smart.