Colleen! I am so sorry that I didn't see this post yesterday!!! Man, what a mess!! How unfair!!!! This is all your needed!! But it looks like you are handling it!!!! Yah!!!!! Sometimes when I would get overwhelmed with outside stuff I would just start laughing. I would think "This is absolutely crazy, this can't be happening".... And then I would think "I will get through this, I will because there is no other choice. Now what do I need to do first".