{{{{{{{Jolly, Wendy}}}}}}} Thank you for your support. I contacted my niece by texting her, and her replies shocked me. I realize what my brother had done to her, but she truly does not care and will not give me any more information. Maybe she doesn't understand that my family needs this for closure, to answer questions that are very basic.

I checked the papers for his obit, and found nothing. I was going to print it out for my parents. I am running into many walls with this.

Mary Alice