Very interesting subject matter......
I agree with the above that a woman's body is beautiful

Some of us spend a lot of time trying to achieve the "perfect" body that we see televised or that is in our minds. That being said, I am a approaching 40 woman which after delivering 3 kids still in some ways have the younger gal's bod. I am not certain how. I have fantasies of all sorts

I have ALL of my life. I also have thought something was per se wrong with me. I have come to somewhat of a resolve in that nothing is abnormal.
They change all the time. Sometimes there are threesome of diff genders; sometimes S & M, sometimes weird stuff ...lol...but they are all me. I don't really act any of them out. I also do not share them with my sig other. That is my private world, I guess. I can say when I was real young I did experience a threesome and it was way overrated. All I took away from that situation was a bruised ego and heart. I won't go there again, even if it is stimulating to me.
Sorry to ramble. Good topic re the mind. Don't beat yourself up for being human. Go back to the above in that we are still mammals. We may be civilized but as they say you can take the gal out of the country, can't take the country out of the gal.
Anyway, again sorry to go on and on. Take something good from it and grow into a self-confident woman sexually. You have nothing to be ashamed of
Huggs
Jen