Flylady.net A big calendar on fridge that family knows to check everyday and to write down events they plan to do. We all have our own color. Mine has been red for most of my life. my dh is green. dd17 blue, dd13 is orange or purple. family events are black. I live by that calendar. Everyone that knows me will remind me to put their event on my calendar. If it is not on there its like it doesnt exist. My memory is almost nonexistant at this point.