Yep! That is also the most i have ever seen you write, and I encourage you to GROWL at those who criticize you any further. When someone makes a statement that is abusive, literally say to them GROWL and walk away (if you can). Easier written than done, I know, but it is something I am practicing too (my word is OUCH!) or i hiss at them. yep, hiss. cat hiss.
So good to see you reaching out!
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