((((Amashel)))) Sometimes folks who don't feel well can be very sensitive. It could be that when you type at night your internal editor is tired and not screening out as much, meaning that you might just have more trouble controling what you write, I imagine. I don't chat myself because I can be rather abrupt, especially if I am tired or manicky. Some folks can't handle me like that and I don't see why they should. I can't judge your case, but I know you are hurting from it. Maybe a veteran chatter can help you out in a gentle way? Hope you find some answers