What a love story You have made me smile. I'm so happy for you! She DOES like you!!!! No woman puts on pj's and snuggles with a man, if she isn't looking to be close to him. However, its sounds like she has been through a lot and she is probably wants to take things slow. Don't rush it, let her be in charge. But I would definitely tell her that you care about her. Don't tell her you love her, it might push her back some. But just say that you really like spending time with her. I think she is feeling really lonely and is enjoying your company...ENJOY it TOO! Don't worry about anything. You have more than a chance than you think you do. Just be there for her...and eventually she will sneak a kiss on you But let her be in control. Good luck and keep us updated!