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Mandozilla, you are well on your way to the trust level with this woman in more ways than one. That is the best part of a relationship. And, yes, exactly what Lenny said. Finish your previous life first. Take this very, very slow and gentle. You will also need to spend time when both of you are in an emotional "neutral" state.
I am 56 and my husband is 68. We recently celebrated our 10th wedding anniversary. This isn't the first or second rodeo for each of us. But it's the last and by far, the best. He says that he never knew what it meant to love someone. He says that simply being with his best friend at the grocery store, drinking coffee on the front porch while watching the sun come up over the mountains, talking about old times at university, planning a trip over the winter months, little things are the best. It's the sharing.
You two already know that you can share. That's wonderful. I am very happy for you.
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 Vickie
Last edited by VickiesPath; Oct 17, 2009 at 11:16 AM.
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