Ama enough people in this world judge us harshly
without us doing it to please remember that you are human
and therefore you make mistakes its all good
the amount of times my mouth has got me in trouble well lets just say
I cannot count that high,please if you feel strongly enough
to back away from chat for your own good thats ok but not if you are feeling forced thats wrong.
Maybe you would feel better if you wrote to each person individually
and apologised if you wish other wise pick yourself up and brush yourself off and say ok lets start again and see if we cannot get it "right" this time.

safe gentle hugs