I do not think anyone should discuss our lives and limitations UNLESS they are WILLING to chip in and HELP change things and encourage us.

I sometimes think that you and I both are very harsh and demanding towards ourselves - it's kind of like doing a bully's job for him and beating my own self up. OUCH, I would like to become more gentle to myself. It is possible to be realistic and yet still kind.

Hugs and Hope for better times and friends ahead.

pixies furrypaws