well i have been dating my girlfriend or 9 months now. And i can really say that i have never felt this was about a girl before. we get along in every way. but here is where issue is. i would say its trust i guess. well it all started with her x. when we started dating she was not over him and it took a wile to get over him. and where the mistrust started was when she would lye about talking to him. even when the was no plane to see. the it got worse when she used the phone i had bought her to talk to him ans send him some nude pics of her. and i found out and after a lot of fighting and talking and crying i forgave her because i just loved her to much to lose her. then she stoped talking to him at the same time he told her he wanted to stop talking to her. so i dont no the real reason she stoped talking to him. and not i am trying very hard to trust her all the way. which it where the other problem comes up. her guy friends. a few times she would go to the movies and out for food with one, just the two of them. and that caused a fight. i told her i dont really like the idea of her and a guy alone on what looks like a date but she says is not. or another times is when is with her best friend which is a guy. and she wants to hang out with him and they will just got to his house and hang out in his room she says its ok because his door is open and is parents are home ans hes just a ffriend but i still feel wired about. i think i feel so uneasy about it because they were friends for a long time and they did have kiss one i think. and that has also started a fight because of her wanting to hang out with him at his house and stuff. she even once said that she'll stop talking to him if i want her to. but i could never do that to her but her saying that leads me to bleave that she really does love me as much as i love her. and the most recent fight was about another guyfriend. she was drawing a pic for him to get a tattoo for his daughter. he also has a wife. then she gave him her number and they started talking a lot. and then he started hitting on her she asked him to stop i guess but then still wanted to keep talking to him. then he stared getting in to our business about relationship asking if i was to clingey and if she liked it. well after we got in another fight she said she would stop talking to him on the phone and text and only on emale and only about the pic she is still working on for him. well i saw the emails and he was say stuff like "i missed talking to you" and always asking how she is and how was her day and you should come hang out with me your inside to much. i just dont know how to react anymore i'm just lost in feeling and really need help on how to deal with it all. i'm over reacting to all of this is it wrong to have mistrust. i really do want to trust her i do