This is not good for you at all....It's not your job to comfort him....It's better to let him alone and he figured it out by himself....trust me...he will be there for you...nothing will happen....but if you keep thinking negatively, then not a good out come with happen....
I was always like you....but now I know no matter what I do, I can't hold into somebody if that person has doubt or not ready or not wanting me.....
Just be relax and enjoy your time with your family.....you don't want to miss this time, then later on you will regret....
last summer I was always chasing this guy, thinking if he doesn't see me then he won't want me....and I missed all the fun part spending time with my niece and nephew who were here from London.....my ex-bf went after another girl finally, and I miss my family reunion....how sad this can be?
just meditate and pray....it will calm you down....take care sweet heart....
Marjan