Minime,

I say enjoy feeling "normal".

As long as you can stay grounded in the reality that this guy no matter how nice and available he seems, he is likely really not AVAILIBLE to group members, I say explore and enjoy the emotions that surface. You can likely learn a lot about what traits you like and dislike in a partner this way. Maybe journal about what you find most interesting about him (his physical appearence, if how he makes eye contact, listens, his words seem consistent with the energy he is emitting, etc..) I think you can learn a lot from what you are experiencing without actually trying to get involved with him.

I will also bet that... now that you KNOW men like this exist...you will likely begin seeing more and more of them popping up in your life. Often just outside of your immediate friends and family. I firmly believe that once we become open and aware of things we like and want more of...those things present themselves more often. But you have to be open to seeing them. For example if you are somewhere and see a guy that reminds you of this man, make it a point to just say hello or send him a quick smile. Not saying for you to jump on the next guy that passes you on the street. I'm just suggesting that you be open to encountering more nice guys. You may be in for some pleasant suprises.