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Oct 18, 2009, 01:47 PM
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Member Since: Feb 2007
Location: Florida
Posts: 1,611
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It takes two people, both giving 100% to make a relationship work. If she's not willing to do her part, there's not much you can do. If you keep doing your 100% and work on your part of what was wrong in your relationship, it will make you better, it will make you better for your next relationship and it could possibly be noticed by your wife eventually and soften her to admit to her own part in the problems in your marriage.
Stick to working on yourself, cleaning up your side of the street and taking care of your kids if you have any, or any other obligations you have. I know it hurts very, very much to be rejected and cheated on. But time is on your side as long as you are concentrating on yourself. You are the only person you have control over. Knowing that and using that knowledge is a powerful tool to making a better, happier life for yourself. Good luck to you. 
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