Ktgirl... it was good that you raised this concern with your T. I also liked your follow up question to her. I think you should also answer it for yourself... Is it really worthwhile for you to continue in therapy if you are not ready or willing to comit to working on your ED? If so, what issues would you work on? How would ultimately working on those issues affect the ED issue?

In my therapy I've chose to work on some secondary issues in hoping that I would become more comfortable with my T relationship and my life more stable. I think this approach has been working and I am now working more directly on my primary issue.

HOWEVER, my primary issue was not life-threatening so this was possible. With an ED that is life-threatening, working on other issues might be like....a firstaider splinting the leg of a man who isn't breathing.