Well... here's the story.. and at the end i'm boggled and find myself at a loss and needing help.
My step mom set me up with one of her younger friends; because I asked her if she knew of any guys who were single and decent.
I met him, fell in love. Did some things we probley should have, and now I'm pregnant.
We got engaged... the only problem is... HE'S MARRIED! and I met his "ex" and his child. she has a boyfriend of her own, and they were suposed to be divorced.
He's very naive, and believes what others tell him. Sometimes taking the easy way out. His ex told him she was filing the divorce papers over 8 months ago. She had him sign many papers back then, and he said it was a packet full. Although.. When I go to look up the paperwork needed to filled out (on google) I find there is only two pages for non contested with minor children. So I don't know where this "packet" comes from.
And anyways I've been saying he needs to take charge and do the papers even if she already did. I don't think it could hurt if it was done twice. My mother (who went through divorce) said it only took her a few weeks, not months. (Texas)
Anyways, now she wants him back (even though she still has her boyfriend). He tells her that he is only there for the child, and not her.
And it leaves me in a big mix up.
They are still married, what can we, or him do? He says he doesn't want to be around her anymore, and he wishes she would stop acting like that when she was the one that ruined the relationship anyways. and I just mention that it sounds like someone wants their cake and eat it too. but...
ugh, i am just so mixed up right now. emotions and my head is spinning.
Any advice would be GREAT!

Thanks.