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Originally Posted by Starrina
...I take responsability for my part sure but I wont take hers no way.
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Good for you, Starrina!
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Originally Posted by Starrina
...do you think it wrong if I simply stop and wait for them to come to me?
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I personally don't think of this as a question of "right" or "wrong"; it's more a question of what you seek to achieve in your relationships with them and what is realistically possible.
From your descriptions, I'm not sure anything you do or say at this time will influence your daughter to want to improve her relationship with you. You can be civil and loving with her, but you cannot control or be responsible for the way she feels.
I hope you can keep the lines of communication open (from your end, at least) and wish you insight and healing.
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My dog
mastered the "fetch" command. He would communicate he wanted something, and I would fetch it.