Dear Lexi ~ I'm so sorry that you find yourself in this situation. You might ask your bf to file for divorce, via an attorney, if he has problems filling out the paperwork himself. If he will not, then I would contact child support services and distance myself from him. He owes you support for your child. I hope and pray for a good outcome in the near future, and I have faith that all will ultimately work out. You can find someone who will both love you and be available to love you. I imagine that your finance has love for you, but if he is not mature enough to make good on his promise to marry you, he is not ready for that love. Hoping that you find the strength to move on, should that be necessary ~ billieJ