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Originally Posted by notme9
When my T does those things it makes me feel better (like she's there with me, rather than just observing me), but it sounds like it's not having that effect on you....
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hi NM9,
I only know how I receive it; I receive it as dismay, at times maybe even shock (not good considering that she's been in this field for about 40 yrs). You think maybe I have been misreading her? that would be good news, but I can't even ask about it - she will of course say no, I don't judge you. Of course we both know that these are things that any good person woudl find revolting. I don't blame her for reacting like a normal and good person.