Amanda,

Everyone sees events differently. Sounds like your aunt is seeing things through your uncle, who has his own view of reality.

We have to do what we feel is best for us, and cannot control how other people react. At one point at least, your uncle realized the problem was so severe that he needed help with it. Some things even therapy doesn't "cure" but hopefully helps you to deal with it better.

Do the best you can with the situation you are in. I know it's much easier said than done when you are put in a seemingly impossible situation. Just remember that the only person you can control is yourself.