Dear Erik ~ you must be very young. No, I don't suppose grandparents understand such things, but, if worse comes to worst, perhaps your T could discuss the matter with them?? That's probably a stupid question, but I had to ask. Do something else with the computer for a few days, and maybe suspicion will be thrown off. Or tell her that you come here to do homework with friends, as you were doing the other day on Chat. Remember? Do you think she accesses the forum? How else could she know what is discussed here?. Remove any desktop shortcuts you may have. If she knew how much good you do and receive here, it would not be a problem, but I don't suppose that's a possibility. Good Luck with this, and don't leave us! billieJ